i didn't say anything about being upset all the time... i just mean that for those of us who don't just care about ourselves, we have to worry about more than our own happiness sometimes!!
But... I don't think that it's entirely right to focus on other people's happiness before your own. There has to be a balance!! You can't make other people happy if you're not happy yourself.
It's true that life's full of a bunch of things that are a huge pain, but yourself is the most important.
[ Spoken like a true hypocrite who is actually prioritizing other people being happy over her own happiness. ]
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i just mean that for those of us who don't just care about ourselves, we have to worry about more than our own happiness sometimes!!
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But... I don't think that it's entirely right to focus on other people's happiness before your own. There has to be a balance!! You can't make other people happy if you're not happy yourself.
It's true that life's full of a bunch of things that are a huge pain, but yourself is the most important.
[ Spoken like a true hypocrite who is actually prioritizing other people being happy over her own happiness. ]
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...you know what, just forget about it
i don't think this is something you can really understand anyway